tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112192779484754332.post1194933299718030140..comments2023-03-10T12:21:39.959+00:00Comments on If you die in SL...: Ballooning VulnerabilityUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112192779484754332.post-89417517205288161912014-05-19T16:35:40.106+01:002014-05-19T16:35:40.106+01:00Deirdre, thank you for this comment. I think that&...Deirdre, thank you for this comment. I think that's a really clever, succinct way of explaining and looking at the situation, and a helpful one, too. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02968275108859214620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4112192779484754332.post-31895596795380452422014-05-18T05:41:59.661+01:002014-05-18T05:41:59.661+01:00There are two kinds of nos - soft nos and hard nos...There are two kinds of nos - soft nos and hard nos. Soft nos are vastly more common, from both men and women, and they are understood by both men and women. Men just have a history of ignoring when they don't like the "no" they are receiving from women, and in general everyone blames the women for "not being clearer" instead of blaming men for deliberately ignoring soft Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02619018164909616871noreply@blogger.com